1、沒有了二十歲的灑脱肆意，沒有過四十歲的雲淡風輕，三十歲想要的是更好的生活。Without the freedom and fearlessness of the twenties and the clarity of the forties, what the thirties want is nothing but a better life.
2、夫妻之間，八成都是平淡的日子，兩成是大起大落。這兩成要是走好了，就能抵消前面八成的不如意。For a couple, 80% of a married life is made of daily routines and 20% ups and downs. But if you can get through all the ups and downs together, the unsatisfaction created from the routine life could be offset.
3、不是所有努力都會成功的，很多事都會事與願違，我勸你也早點明自這個道理，不是有錢什麼事都能辦得成的。Working hard does not necessarily mean you are being productive. Sometimes, things turn out contrary to the way one wishes. I really do hope that you truly understand this as soon as possible. Being wealthy does not necessarily mean being successful.
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